{"id":983,"date":"2018-06-24T21:39:53","date_gmt":"2018-06-25T04:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/odaatchat.com\/?p=983"},"modified":"2018-07-01T07:08:50","modified_gmt":"2018-07-01T14:08:50","slug":"todd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/odaatchat.com\/index.php\/2018\/06\/24\/todd\/","title":{"rendered":"OC51-Todd &#8211; Childhood Trauma, Violence, Alcoholism, Suicide Attempts and Transformational Sobriety"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-985\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/odaatchat.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Screen-Shot-2018-06-24-at-9.12.37-PM.png?resize=300%2C291&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"291\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/odaatchat.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Screen-Shot-2018-06-24-at-9.12.37-PM.png?resize=300%2C291&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/odaatchat.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Screen-Shot-2018-06-24-at-9.12.37-PM.png?w=303&amp;ssl=1 303w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This podcast is brought you by the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/odaatchat\/\">ODAAT Chat Closed Facebook Group<\/a>. If you hear something on the podcast that you\u2019d like to discuss or if you need support for your recovery, you can hop on over to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/odaatchat\/\">closed Facebook group<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To join, just visit odaatchat.com and look for the Facebook logo on the right. I look forward to chatting with you there!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi Friend! Welcome to ODAAT Chat. My name is Arlina and I\u2019ll be your host. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The primary purpose of the podcast is to carry the message of hope to those who are suffering from addiction. \u00a0My guests and I talk about their addiction stories, what happened, what it was like and what a life of sobriety looks like now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through these conversations, I\u2019m looking to uncover the new ideas, changes in perspective, and the daily habits or routines that lead to healing &amp; long term recovery. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have a quote for you today from Sarah Ban Breathnach, the author of the hugely popular book, <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2MUOkfy\">Simple Abundance, A Daybook of Comfort and Joy<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She writes \u201cYou simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: The more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given to you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0446563595\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0446563595&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=salespol20-20&amp;linkId=977b817f46f5b70119f2ec4c359c2a1e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ASIN=0446563595&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;WS=1&amp;Format=_SL250_&amp;tag=salespol20-20\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" src=\"\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=salespol20-20&amp;l=am2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0446563595\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0446563595\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0446563595&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=salespol20-20&amp;linkId=1f67012ef6ca814043057fea45298ca3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" src=\"\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=salespol20-20&amp;l=am2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0446563595\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That is in line with the truth that whatever we think about we bring about, or whatever we focus on expands. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simple Abundance spent 2 years on the NYT Best seller list, the first year in the number one spot. I remember when it first came out in 1995. I saw her interviewed on Oprah, and the audience members shared how doing a gratitude list every day for 30 days changed their lives, so I tried it. For me, it\u2019s had a subtle but profound effect. It\u2019s probably one of my most consistent practices along with prayer and to a lesser degree meditation. For accountability, I write a list of 5 things I\u2019m grateful for, take a pic and send it to a friend, and she sends one back to me. Give it a try and let me know about your experience!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today\u2019s conversation is with my friend Todd. I\u2019ve known him for over 20 years and seen him go through a lot, evolve and grow into the person he is today. If you&#8217;d like to connect with Todd, here are some links:<\/span><\/p>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Insolencesj\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Insolencesj\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1530539266408000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGytdzTaNkmjoEME6ZrUGw9_H5Zjg\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/<wbr \/>Insolencesj\/<\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Stream on Spotify<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/1LfsU6FaZVLdGauviz45oB\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/1LfsU6FaZVLdGauviz45oB&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1530539266408000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGqKSuudlCPaQ-BBD66f62ggWbrmg\">https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/<wbr \/>album\/1LfsU6FaZVLdGauviz45oB<\/a><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you are listening my friend, I want you to know I am very proud of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With that, please enjoy this episode, with Todd <\/span><\/p>\n<p>With love &amp; gratitude,<\/p>\n<p>Arlina<\/p>\n<p><strong>Click here to listen:<\/strong><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none;\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/6740305\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/autoplay\/no\/autonext\/no\/thumbnail\/yes\/preload\/no\/no_addthis\/no\/direction\/backward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/87A93A\/\" width=\"100%\" height=\"90\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Download as an MP3 by\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/odaatchat\/OC51_Todd_-_Childhood_Trauma_Jails_Suicide_Attempts_and_Transformation_Through_Recovery.mp3\">right-clicking here<\/a>\u00a0and choosing \u201csave as.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Or on iTunes:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"itms:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/the-odaat-chat-podcast\/id1212504521\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-365 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/salespolish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/subscribe-on-iTunes-300x101.jpeg?resize=300%2C101\" alt=\"subscribe-on-itunes\" width=\"300\" height=\"101\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Or on Google Play:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/2GrEZcd\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-777\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/odaatchat.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Screen-Shot-2018-03-14-at-8.48.07-AM.png?resize=298%2C79&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"298\" height=\"79\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This podcast is sponsored by Audible. 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